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Every day I post videos on TikTok @Nicolettemeloveyou
Like my writing practice, I see it as an act of showing up and allowing my voice to exist without expectations, perfectionism, or fear. It's also the beginning of a long apprenticeship into becoming the woman I envision myself being: someone who is deeply in love with who she is, the life she builds, and unafraid to share it.
The past year of posts have been chats on inner work, spirituality, intuition, authenticity, personal growth, overcoming shame, family, creativity, and believing in yourself. Whatever makes it's way from my notes app into the world.
In the next year, I am focusing on building and shaping my message further. I want to help others build themselves up into their own beautiful homes and visions.
What kicked this whole TikTok thing off was a heart-crushing breakup that became an unexpected rite of passage into my thirties. It showed me what life feels like when parts of yourself are left waiting outside the door, hoping to be welcomed in and accepted. I felt silenced, unsupported, misunderstood, and disconnected from the parts of me that most wanted to live, create, speak, and be seen. I realized I never want to build another relationship, career, friendship, or life that required me to hide. If I wanted a life filled with aligned people, opportunities, and community, I would have to become fully available and accepting to my own authenticity first.
I take my name seriously. Nicolette means "the people's victory." For much of my life, I felt defeated by shame, self-doubt, and the fear of being fully seen. Learning to show up as myself anyway has been my greatest challenge andteacher. My hope is that by practicing radical self-expression, I can encourage others to trust themselves, embrace who they are, and become the greatest thing, and victory, that ever happened to their own lives.